“seven years of relationship worth nothing but sadness.” A lady cried, I never love myself, never been selfish but I got to get what I want
Love shouldn’t be considered first in relationships but what one wants in the relationship. One needs to consider evalating joy in relationships – I mean what the man wants and what you want.
This I refused to consider before I agreed with my man .
Now I let him know what I want he began to fight me, call me names , complaining he is going through stress just to satisfy with what I want. I feel guilty making someone go through much stress to satisfy my want even our want. I was sleepless overnight thinking about the issue. Day break I told him , can you do what I want or I find alternative. To him it sounded treating but I never mean it that way.
And he told me to leave his life am giving him problem.
I needed to take drugs and alcohol to sleep so I won’t think much.
Sometimes what one wants in relationship leads to love and make it hold but love will never lead to what you want except one endure.
